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(12 weeks postpartum and beyond)
At some point after your baby is born, you’ll feel ready to stretch your wings a little bit, safe to leave your little one for a while while you work, visit with others or spend time on your own.
Being away from your baby can feel strange- after so many months of them being a part of you or very near you, it’s a huge transition to not be within arms reach. And yet, at the same time, the freedom can be incredibly nourishing and offer you a glimpse of what life was life when it was just you.
Whether your time looks like an hour alone in town or a weekend away, use it to recharge and reintegrate your sense of self.
Bliss List
• Treat yourself to a haircut, color or mani-pedi
• Invest in a few transitional pieces of clothing that fit your body now and you feel great in
• Go out to dinner or on date with your partner
• Take yourself on a creative date that nourishes your soul
• Take older children on a short but special outing without baby
• Set up tea dates or walks with friends you’ve missed catching up with
• Set up personal check-ins with key co-workers or send a mindful email that you’re back
• Take on a small/ low-risk work project you can do during naptimes
• Take the time to transition slowly into new childcare routine
• Begin to build up stamina in a form of exercise you love